Monday, September 27, 2021

Aging and the Nature of Time

 

AGING AND THE NATURE OF TIME

What is aging with respect to the nature of time? Something we all have in common is that we all age and grow older. So how does that relate to the nature of time? Why is it that we age at all? Why can’t we stay young forever? Perhaps, a question that has plagued philosophers for centuries and why Ponce de Leon set off to find the fountain of youth, the question of aging has been with us for a long time. So why do we have to age if time stands still in the universe and is perennial? Let us examine the question categorically.

Aging is basically the process of growing older and in some cases more frail and the advancement of age. It is defined in the dictionary as “the process of becoming old or older.” Essentially, that’s what aging is. It is a process of becoming old since it wears us down and wears out our youth. The process of aging requires the passage of time or the winding down of time. If it said that time is endless and we are immortal beings, why should we age? Why can’t we simply go to heaven as young hearty men? For one, we become progressively older- we start as babies, go on to our teens, become adults and finally older people. This process also requires time and could not be stopped at any one interval. For example, it would not make sense if we stayed babies forever. Or were perpetual teenagers or defiant elderly. It seems that aging is inherent to the nature of time. It is required by time to keep us moving in the direction of immortality.

Why is that we feel a certain way when we’re young and a certain way when we’re older. If time is always the same why should our feelings change? We are more aggressive when we’re younger and when we get older, we retire. This is likely due to the progressive nature of aging with respect to time. If time requires us to age, then it will also change our feelings over time to lead us in that direction. Hence, aging is the process of immortalization among human beings. But if immortality is a fixed property of time, then why should we age in the first place? It would almost behoove us to ask, why be born at all? The answer may lie in the exact concept of the fixed nature of time.

And what of vanity. When we are younger we feel beautiful but when we grow older, even a gray hair or slight balding may peeve us. If time stands still, why is it that vanity fades away. Perhaps, because of the nature of the soul. To quote the famous poet, “Dust thou art, to dust returnest, Was not spoken of the soul.” Thus, it seems that vanity is also a contradiction to aging. When we look in the mirror, we are only seeing our physical appearance but the true mirror to the soul is not reflected back to us. Thus, age is not relative to the soul since the soul is eternal and as the body withers like the ‘mortal coil’ our soul persists beyond the grave. We must look deeper.

So if we age, and aging is progressive, why is that it does not progress beyond our death which is inevitable. Does our life cease to exist with the culmination of the aging process? Since aging is a fixed property of time, it would not matter if we age at all and it is only a conditional property. So even if we age during our earthly years, it would not matter beyond our death, in that we would stay young forever or at least in a suspended state of aging. It seems that aging is a relative property and is immaterial to the nature of time. We age but our soul is the definitive course. Our soul bears the burden of our aging and hence, we are extended beyond our years to reach the point of death if only to sanctify our soul for the sake of aging. In other words, we age to live a thousand times.

It seems that aging is an indirect value of time. We age and grow old in years if only to pass through a physical transformation and not a spiritual one. Thus, the two are distinct. Our physical transformation does not degrade our spiritual one and due to the uniform nature of time, so does aging not undermine our immortality but extends it. It is one of those mysteries of God that moves us that while aging is a inevitable process it does not take away our individuality in any way and only preserves our immortality. So while Ponce de Leon may have been seeking a real fountain of youth, he would have been pleased to know that time does justify the existence of such a place where all things stay young and people never grow older.

 

Monday, April 12, 2021

New poem

 Talash

Kash tum sath hotai
Ahsaas
Hai mujeh tumseh
Kash kaabi tum door nahi hotai
Talash
Kartah hu tumkoh in vaadiyoh
Mein 
Koh gayah hu men tujeh talash 
Karteh karteh 

Seeking,
Longing for you to be with me,
Sympathy/Understanding
I have for you
Wish you never had to go away
Seeking,
Have I been in these hills/valleys for you,
Lost I have been in my search for you. 

Sunday, March 7, 2021

Dukh (Sadness) A poem

 Dukh 

Koi shakh nahi

yeh dil hai nazuk

samaleh samelkeh

yeh dil sei nah sakai

dukh

Koi shakh nahi

Mukreh nahah

Yeh dil hai

teri pyar meh dukreh jayah

Trans.

Sadness

There is no doubt

with care, have care

this heart cannot take

Sadness

There is no doubt

Never say no

This is the heart

In your love keeps weeping. 


Version 2 

Dukh

yeh dil nazuk hai

dereh dereh

kaabi mukehr nahi

yeh dil sah nah sakai

Trans. Sad

Sad

This heart is weak

There is no doubt

slowly, slowly

never say no

this heart cannot take it

Wednesday, February 24, 2021

Woh Baath nahi Rahee

 Woh baath nahee rahee,

Joh Thi,

Woh baath nahee rahee

Joh thi,

Joh tumnah sochah woh nah thah

Wo baath nahee rahee

Joh thi,

Kuch ko gayah hu meh

Kuch bulah gayah hu meh

Ku nah tu milee

Kuch bhool gayah hu meh

Kuch fanah huwah hu mah

Ek pooljadee

Wo baath nahee rahee 

Joh thi

Wo baath nahee rahee

Joh thi

Joh palee thi aur aaj nahi rahee

Wo baath nahee rahee

Joh thi

Kyah huwah kyah nahi,

Kuch pathaa nahee ho

Kal kayah tha aur aaj kyah hai

Jaab hum nahi huweh dildaar.

Trans. 

It's not like it once was

It's not like it once was

What you thought was not true

It's not like it once was

I am a little lost

Some things I have forgotten

Why did we not meet,

I do no remember

I have lost myself

Like a rose that fades

It's not like it once was

What once was and today is not

It's not like it once was

What happened, what was

Nothing we can know

What was yesterday and what was today,

When we were not lovers. 


Dil

More urdu poetry from our Poetry corner 

Dil

Dil ku nah hotah hai manzoor

Nah koi ghalti aur kasoor

pir bhi ho naraaz

Dil ku nah hotah hai manzoor

Pass bhi rah pir bhi door

Jasseh chiragh meh ho ek noor

Dil ku nah hotah hai manzoor

Dil ku nah hotah hai manzoor

Kuch nah boleh kuch bath nah mantha

Sothah jaggtah, kamptah

kaabi nah sach boltah

Dil ku nah hotah hai manzoor. 

Trans. The Heart

Heart, why are you not true

When I have done no harm or guilt,

but you are always upset with me.

Heart, why are you not true

When you are close it still feels far

Like a light in a lamp

Heart why are you not true

Heart, why are you not true

You don't speak and nor accept me 

Sleeping waking shaking

Never speak the truth

Heart why are you not true

Pyar khi Yaad

 Pyar ki Yaad

Pyar khi Yaad

Ku nah rathi mereh paas,

Aur hum pyar keh jadoo meh ho gumrah, 

Pyar khi yaadh

Ku nah rathah mereh paas

Aur ku nah ho tu mereh saath

Nah koi ho or koi baath

Pyar khi yaadh

jaseh ho ek baraat

Aur pyar kareh to mereh saath,

Yeh hah meri pyar khi yaadh.

Trans. 

Love's memory

Why are you not close?

Why are we not lost in love?

loves' memory.

Why are you not close to me?

And why are you not at my side.

There is no one.

Love's memory,

Like a wedding party

Who love's only me,

This is my love's memory. 


Saturday, February 13, 2021

Hate among the Coronavirus

 

Hate among the Coronavirus

 

We should not resent the old, elderly or infirm due to the coronavirus. I felt ashamed today, when I looked out an older couple and felt inveigled. As someone who recently had Covid 19, I felt some hostility towards anyone who might look sick or old since they could make me more sick. This is the wrong way of thinking. We really should be more open-minded. In short, we are all in it together and we should all look at each other like brothers since it is the only to overcome the crisis.

We should not rebuke anyone who may be sick or elderly since it affects everyone. We should be more caring and concerned for the poor and elderly, the homeless, and transient who may be prone to the coronavirus and show them remorse and pity. We should not let our fears cloud our better judgment and know that all people deserve the same care and empathy during this time.

It would be like condemning all Jews who may have survived the Holocaust as people who are disposed to such a tragedy and that all people who are slightly compromised to be viewed as lesser beings or less human. This is a travesty. We need to change our thinking and be bigger people who can think beyond the current crisis to have better values and be more humane and not let the epidemic define us but rise above and have better values and

We need to look at all people equally and not let ourselves be pulled into irrational thinking by a prolonged epidemic that can weight heavy on our minds. As we are reading more and more, how violence is affecting our lives and affecting people who are being chastised or condemned due to this epidemic, we should correct ourselves and be more accepting. It is a moment in history that is defining us and who we are and we can lot let it get the better of us. We need to face down this period and come out better by showing more humanity and civility.

It’s something that we have to face together and it is a test of the heart and mind that cannot beat us. We must overcome our fears and inhibitions and let not let ourselves be pulled into the mire of hate and contempt because it is suitable or convenient to chastise the sick or elderly for the sake of a moment’s reprieve. We need to stick it out and stick together to overcome this epidemic together that will define us for years to come and show the kind of people that we really can be when facing the most trying times.

AJ Naseem is a blogger and activist. He writes on topics related to health, politics and government.